Where are The Older Women?

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“the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things— that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed.” -Titus 2:3-5

Mothers who have traveled the journey of parenthood from babe to adult. Older mothers enjoying the company of grandchildren. Mothers who have cooked, sewn, managed a household, been married, home educated, danced in flowers with their children, kissed skinned knees, helped their husbands, rocked sleeping babes, nursed and nourished their infants, mopped, cleaned bathrooms, made their husband dinner, and prayed for their family.

Where are you?

Have you left us who are new to this utter giving up of self? Are we to struggle to do what we are called to do without guidance? Do you laugh and say “pay back” when our children display our own sinful attitudes from childhood and then walk away?

We need you.

As younger mothers struggling to pursue God’s calling for us it leads to an overwhelming feeling that nothing else can compare to. We are tired. We struggle with attitudes and we lose hope. Our lives are filled with physically exhausting activities and throwing in the towel just isn’t an option.

Help us.

If you see us at church stop us and ask us how we are doing. Guide us gently, in love, and encourage us as the above passage asks you to. We don’t want to lose our way but it is so hard to stay on the straight and narrow path when all of life is tempting us to take on the world. Remind us to put away the world and to focus on our little kingdoms: our husband, our children, and our homes.

Don’t be afraid.

Unsolicited advice has been given a bad rap. We get that. But sometimes we are afraid to speak up. We need your wisdom to flow into our listening ears. We desire to know what worked for you and why. We are on a crash course of parenting that no training during childhood could have prepared us for. Learning by doing is how we operate.

Don’t give up.

Some of us young mommies may seem to bristle when you offer your words of wisdom. We are not all like that. I promise. Some of us do have teachable hearts that are willing and waiting to hear what you have to say. We want to learn from you. Yours hugs and coffee time teaching moments keep us going and let us know that there is a reason for why we do what we do.

We’re waiting.

Photo credit: nkzs

Different Ways to Menu Plan

*If you are considering starting to menu plan then I encourage you to read the first post in this Menu Planning How-To series.*

If you ask those who utilize menu planning into their lives you will probably find that each person goes about it differently. However I find that there are three basic steps that are generally followed and so I will share those with you.

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Weekly, Bi-Weekly, Monthly

This particular method is the one I employ most often. When I started out using the menu planning way of organizing I did one week at a time and just dinners. This gave me a sufficient jumping off point and eased me into learning something new. It was easily manageable and I did not feel overwhelmed. If you need to start even smaller – say, three days at a time – that is a great starting place. Whatever you feel you can do will help. The importance comes from just starting! Pretty soon you’ll be moving on to bi-weekly and monthly and planning breakfasts, lunches, and snacks as well.

First off you will want some method to keeping track what your menu plan will be. I have used various ways to write down my menu plan. I have done it on paper and computer. Various excel templates have come and gone though I am currently working on making one that will fit me perfectly. Starting with a pad of paper and a pencil is probably best at first. *By the way, using a pencil while menu planning is best. Inevitably you will want to change something and it looks much better if you aren’t crossing things out.* Make a line for each day.

Next you will will want to look at your calendar. If you go planning willy-nilly you might forget that Tuesday night Uncle Joe is coming over for his birthday dinner or that Thursday night you have a date with you husband. Mark those on your note pad.

Fill in what you want for dinner each night. To help you out you could make each day a theme: Mondays are Mexican, Tuesday is soups/chilis, Wednesday is Italian, etc. This will help you out when you get stuck on what to make that night.

Easy peasy, huh?

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Rotating Menu Plan

Save your menu plans when you are done with them. Put them in a ziplock baggie or set them in a file folder. When you have enough of these saved up you can pull them out and use them. It is not necessary to make a new menu for every week when you can just swap them out for older menu plans.

Again, easy peasy.

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Based on what’s in pantry, coupons, on sale, or in season

I can’t speak too much on making a menu plan based on coupons or whats on sale. However there have been times when money was tight and I was forced to make dinners based on what I already had on hand. You don’t have to do this just because you are strapped for cash; it is also a good idea to be as resourceful as possible with what you have already purchased.

This is especially easy to do if you have an inventory on the doors of your freezer/fridge and pantry. You can easily see what you have and plan meals based on those ingredients. If you don’t use an inventory then just go through your food items and write them down. Base your menu on those items and you will probably be surprised at how much you already have that will make complete meals. This would also be a good time toss or giveaway items that you won’t use or have expired.

You can also base your meals on store sales and coupons but as I said above I do not have experience with that. You can easily google for more info.

I hope you have found this post helpful. If you have any questions feel free to ask! The next in this menu planning series will be all about resources you can use to help you plan!  See you then.

Photo credits: quacktaculous, net_efekt, ellievanhoutte

American Heritage Education Foundation – Review

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The mission of the American Heritage Education Foundation is to be

a non-profit, non-partisan educational foundation (501.c.3) dedicated to the understanding and teaching of America’s factual and philosophical heritage to promote constructive citizenship and Freedom, Unity, Progress, and Responsibility among our students and citizens.

AHEF accomplishes this patriotic mission by writing, producing, and distributing FREE K-12 lesson plans to teachers, students, and families in all 50 states and through additional initiatives, programs, and partnerships.

AHEF is inclusive of individuals of every race and creed and every religious or non-religious persuasion.”

I received their CD entitled America’s Heritage: An Adventure in Liberty to review. This CD can be requested for free at the AHEF website. You can also purchase a print version for $19.50. At 184 pages this is an American History resource that could be used with all ages. Many topics are covered and there are various themes that direct the studies.

What is Discussed?

  • American Revolution
  • The Declaration of Independence
  • George Washington
  • United States Flag
  • and more.

The themes covered are:

  • Freedom
  • Progress
  • Responsibility
  • and Unity

What did I think?

Hmmm. I have to admit that the fact that this resource has a background in a government school system bothers me a great deal. One reason I am homeschooling is because I feel that Mr. Incredible and I are able to provide a better education for our children than what the public school can. I am hesitant to bring anything that is used in the public school setting into our home because invariably we do not mesh theologically.

That being said, I think this could be a useful resource if you throw out the relative secularism. We will be able to use the Thanksgiving study in our home and I appreciate all of the suggested activities. For those on a limited budget this would be an excellent resource to use as a jumping off point towards making your own lesson plans in social studies. I did appreciate the lyrics to American songs like America the Beautiful and the puzzles you can print and cut out to reinforce what you are learning.

While it may not have been a perfect fit for our home I know that this may not be the case for all families. Feel free to check out The American Heritage Education Foundation website to learn more.


Christian Kids Explore Biology

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One thing I was concerned about for our school year was a science curriculum. We hadn’t really found one we like that meshed with our home education curriculum. Part Charlotte Mason and part Classical Education we are very hands on and use lots of discussion to teach our children. Textbook science will not work for us and we find it very bland and boring.

Bright Ideas Press sent me the Christian Kids Explore Biology to review as part of the TOS Homeschool Crew. What a blessing! I will say right off the bat that this is a good fit for our family though we do have some theological differences. I will discuss those disagreements later.

Written by homeschool mom, Stephanie L. Redmond, there are 35 weekly lessons in this 291 page book. Broken up into eight units you cover everything from creation, photosynthesis, and bird structure to aquatic animals, human reproduction, insects and amphibians. There is a lot packed into this book.

I found this science curriculum easy to use and made planning simple. Two huge pluses in my book. There is a “How to Use This Book” section that will guide you in how to teach using the text, making the most of hands-on time, utilizing the provided coloring pages and more. At the beginning of each unit you will also find a vocabulary listing that will help you see at a glance what words will be included in discussion. A materials needed list is also provided.

*Quick note about the coloring pages: you are given permission by the author to copy these for your home education. This huge as you do not have to purchase an additional book for each child!*

While this book was designed for grades 3-6 it was easily adaptable for my younger children. The above-mentioned coloring pages gave them an activity to complete while I was bringing about the concepts and discussion. They were able to hang up their pictures and that reinforced what they learned whenever they looked at them. There are also many hands-on time activities suggested that get you out of the classroom and have your students learning by doing. Another huge positive for me was that the chapters are short and sweet. Because you are doing coloring pages and experiments and holding discussions  you get away from the text-book style of learning.

Also included are appendices which provide reproducible forms and maps such as an experiment form or field trip journal, memorization or reference lists (these were exceptionally helpful to me!), scripture memories, an ABC Book for your children to make, and supplemental activities.

A few things that I chose to skip or correct were in the first chapter in which the following sentence was included: “Not all creationists believe the world was formed exactly as the Bible says, but many do.” I find this statement erroneous as I believe that if you are a true creationist you must believe that the Bible is correct in describing how God made the world. Also, our family does not hold to the idea that man is an animal. Unfortunately we found this book to include man in the animal kingdom and so we skipped over those portions which this was taught.

This book is affordable at $34.95 and there are other books in the Christian Kids Explore series: Physics, Earth and Space, and Chemistry. Check these out, I think you’ll find that they just might fit your family!

Thanksgiving Unit Studies

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Thanksgiving is the perfect time to teach our children about their heritage. Whether or not you descend from those who stepped off of the Mayflower, this is part of our country’s beginnings. Why not make it fun and hands on for our children? Here are a few ideas on what you you could study for a Thanksgiving Unit Study:

  • Who were the Pilgrims?
  • What is their history prior to sailing to America?
  • Why did the Separatists come to America?
  • What was their journey on the Mayflower like? What did they do to prepare for such a journey?
  • How many people were on board? How many were women? Men? Children? Were there any births during the voyage?
  • How did the sailors and captain treat their passengers? Did they get along?
  • What time of year did they land in Plymouth? What was the weather like?
  • What were the first things they did after arriving to the New World?
  • Why did the Pilgrims write the Mayflower Compact?
  • What difficulties did they face their first year in North America?
  • How did they build their homes? What materials did they use?
  • What food did they eat? Did they grow gardens? How did they preserve their meat?
  • How did they meet the Indians? What were the names of the Indians and what tribes did they come from?
  • Why did the Pilgrims make a day of Thanksgiving?
  • What was the original Thanksgiving day like? How long did it take to cook the food? What food did they serve? Who did they invite? What other activities did they have beside a feast. Did they songs?

Recommended Activities:

Lapbooks are ways to put together in one folder all that you have learned during your unit study. A great example of a Thanksgiving lapbook can be seen

Resources:

The First Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving Lapbook for purchase

Another Thanksgiving Lapbook for purchase

Pilgrim Story

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Plimoth Plantation – This is an excellent and well done site on the what Plymouth looked like when the Pilgrims were there.

What was on the menu?

Clothing

*NEW* Thanksgiving Unit Plans for Preschoolers

Obviously these links are just a small sampling of what can be found on the Internet. This is just to get you started!

Activities to include in your Unit Studies:

Hold a recreation with another family of the original Thanksgiving. Dress up in original Pilgrim garb and have fun speaking Old English.

Write a Thanksgiving play.

Make at least one dish that the Pilgrims served at the original Thanksgiving.

Visit Plimoth Plantation for a family trip.

Make sure to include Thanksgiving hymns in your holiday activities. These will help remind you why we celebrate this special day.

I hope this has helped spur you on towards creating your own Thanksgiving Unit Studies. You will have just as much fun and learn quite a bit along with your children. Feel free to share with me any ideas I know I have missed.

Photo credits: romulusnr

Menu Planning How-To’s – Part One

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Why Menu Plan?

There are many reasons why someone would choose to plan their menus.  In this first installment of my menu planning series I will go over the three top reasons and share why I personally use a menu plan in our home.

Best use of resources

I think many people would be stunned at how much usable foodstuffs they already have in their pantries.  Some have even blogged about making menus based on what they already have.  People buy grocery items with the best of intentions, store them in their pantries, then forget about them.  Why?  Because they have no plan, no set action on how to use those items.  Making a menu plan gets rid of this problem because you buy groceries with a purpose and you know exactly when and how you will use them.

Monetary reasons

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This is the main reason why I started menu planning in the first place.  The first few years of my and Mr. Incredible’s marriage were financially rough.  We had a baby, were single income and he was graduating.  All in one year.  It was tough and emotionally draining and I would never want to go through that again.  At the same time, I learned a lot about finances and how every little bit counts.  I did not really know how to cook or run a household when I got married.  Buying groceries was an event that intimidated me because I didn’t really know what to buy.  We went to the grocery store a lot because I’d run out of items or need something for dinner that night.  It also forced us to eat out more than I would like to admit.

In order to combat these problems I decided to get organized. I would make a menu plan for one week and shop accordingly.  I made a lot of mistakes in the beginning but it ended up saving us quite a lot of money.

Organization

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This one may seem obvious, but really it is forgotten in many homes.  With no idea what you will be cooking you are generally going to be stressed out come dinner time. Using a well-planned out menu plan and having the necessary ingredients available to you when you need them eliminates the meal time “blahs.” You waste less food and have control over how your day will go. You will be less likely to run to the nearest fast-food joint because you don’t know what to make for dinner. Simple planning goes a long way.

The rest of this Menu Planning – How To will cover:

  • Different Ways to Menu Plan
  • Menu Planning Resources
  • Shopping
  • An interview with a really great lady! (I promise! You all know and love her)

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Photo credits: mailsparky, sritenou, joakiml, oskay

A Week of Handmade Gifts

*A Week of Handmade Gifts has been canceled due to lack of interest. Maybe next year!*

I have challenged myself this year to make by hand most of the Christmas gifts we give.  These types of gifts are from the heart, involve that precious gift of time, and are generally easier on the pocketbook.  In honor of this personal challenge I will be hosting “A Week of Handmade Gifts” from November 30 – December 5.

This meme will be complete with Mr. Linky so that those who want to share their own handmade gifts can do so.  Each day will feature a different category so that people who are searching for ideas can easily look them up.  The categories will be:

  • Christmas-themed Gifts
  • Food Gifts
  • Gifts for Adults
  • Childrens’ Gifts
  • Gifts for the Home
  • And Miscellaneous gifts

This is a great way for you to showcase what you have personally made to give to others.  This will in turn inspire your bloggy friends to make presents as well.  Get your children involved, too!  Kids love to be hands on and it will show them the importance of thinking of others first.

A few “guidelines”

  • The gifts you feature must be homemade in some shape or form.  I am not suggesting that you grow your own cotton, spin it into thread, etc., to make a quilt.  However it must be put together by you or your family in some fashion.
  • You can link up just one day or every day.  It’s up to you!
  • The post(s) you link up to must be to a specific post about handmade gifts.
  • Pictures and tutorials are a huge plus!
  • Please do not do your own Mr. Linky.  Thanks!
  • Please include the Week of Handmade Gifts badge somewhere on your blog.  While this is not necessary it does help get the word out.  The more people involved, the better the inspiration!  You can grab the script for the badge below.